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1000 Marbles - How many Saturdays do you have left?

A good friend of mine sent this to me. It’s really one of those chain letters you get that’s been passed through a million other people. I couldn’t find an attributable source so I’ll post it as anonymous unless someone corrects me. Anyway I did the math and I have 1,857 Saturdays left. Man…that sort of brings it home. Make ‘em count boyz!

Dan

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The older I get, the more I enjoy Saturday morning. Perhaps it’s the quiet solitude that comes with being the first to rise, or maybe it’s the unbounded joy of not having to be at work. Either way, the first few hours of a Saturday morning are most enjoyable.

A few weeks ago, I was shuffling toward the garage with a steaming cup of coffee in one hand and the morning paper in the other. What began as a typical Saturday morning turned into one of those lessons that life seems to hand you from time to time. Let me tell you about it:

I turned the dial up into the phone portion of the band on my ham radio in order to listen to a Saturday morning swap net. Along the way, I came across an older sounding chap, with a tremendous signal and a golden voice. You know the kind; he sounded like he should be in the broadcasting business. He was telling whomever he was talking with something about a thousand marbles. I was intrigued and stopped to listen to what he had to say.

Well, Tom, it sure sounds like you’re busy with your job. I’m sure they pay you well but it’s a shame you have to be away from home and your family so much. Hard to believe a young fellow should have to work sixty or seventy hours a week to make ends meet. It’s too bad you missed your daughters dance recital, he continued; Let me tell you something that has helped me keep my own priorities. And that’s when he began to explain his theory of a thousand marbles.

You see, I sat down one day and did a little arithmetic. The average person lives about seventy-five years. I know, some live more and some live less, but on average, folks live about seventy-five years.

Now then, I multiplied 75 times 52 and I came up with 3,900, which is the number of Saturdays that the average person has in their entire lifetime. Now, stick with me, Tom, I’m getting to the important part.

It took me until I was fifty-five years old to think about all this in any detail, he went on, and by that time I had lived through over twenty-eight hundred Saturdays. I got to thinking that if I lived to be seventy-five, I only had about a thousand of them left to enjoy. So I went to a toy store and bought every single marble they had. I ended up having to visit three toy stores to round up 1,000 marbles. I took them home and put them inside a large, clear plastic container right here in the shack next to my gear.

Every Saturday since then, I have taken one marble out and thrown it away. I found that by watching the marbles diminish, I focused more on the really important things in life.

There’s nothing like watching your time here on this earth run out to help get your priorities straight.

Now let me tell you one last thing before I sign off with you and take my lovely wife out for breakfast. This morning, I took the very last marble out of the container. I figure that if I make it until next Saturday then I have been given a little extra time. And the one thing we can all use is a little more time.

It was nice to meet you Tom. I hope you spend more time with your family, and I hope to meet you again here on the band. This is a 75 year old man, K9NZQ, clear and going QRT, good morning!

You could have heard a pin drop on the band when this fellow signed off. I guess he gave us all a lot to think about. I had planned to work on the antenna that morning, and then I was going to meet up with a few hams to work on the next club newsletter.

Instead, I went upstairs and woke my wife up with a kiss. C’mon honey, I’m taking you and the kids to breakfast.

“What brought this on?” She asked with a smile.

Oh, nothing special, it’s just been a long time since we spent a Saturday together with the kids. And hey, can we stop at a toy store while were out? I need to buy some marbles.

Musing on turning 40
I have moments of trepidation on turning 40, but realize that it gains me nothing to dwell on the inevitable. Life is full of missed opportunities and unfulfilled potential. It can either paralyze you in regretful retrospect or ignite a desire to make the most of what remains. I choose the latter.

What are the habits all successful people share?

7 Habits Audiobook

You probably have this book on your shelf and have never really read it!

It’s Stephen Covey’s book, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” - and it is definitely among my top 10 must read books for anyone looking to create momentum in their lives.

So you know how thrilled I was when I found out that Audible is running a promotion for a free copy of the abridged “7 Habits” audiobook. If you are not a reader, you can get the highlights during a week of commutes!

You do have to create an Audible account - but otherwise it appears to be an easy download.

http://www.audible.com/adbl/entry/off … &productID=FR_COVE_000032

Enjoy!

Dan

3:9 Hardwired?

I recently read an interesting article on MSNBC.com titled “Is conflict between God and science hardwired?” by Robin Lloyd (http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/28675668).  It was a review of a scientific study that suggests “our minds are conflicted, making it so we have trouble reconciling science and God because we unconsciuosly see these concepts as fundametnally opposed”.  While the psychologists running the study found evidence that people tend to place science and religion on opposite ends of the arguments surrounding the larger issues of life such as the origin of the Universe and the evolution/creation of man.  The leaders of the study believe that their results show that a Dual Belief System does not exist in our brains.

Ultimately the article did point to other potential causes to the conflict, such as cultural opposition, that influence the results of the study.  I tend to agree with that potential, and would even tender the suggestion that the 3:9 Principle is an influencing factor as well.  Consider it this way - people that tend to gravitate to numbers, facts and science are primarily Head-centric in Nature, while those who gravitate to relationship, emotion and faith are Heart-centric.  The questions posed by the study force a potential tug-of-war between these two Natures.  Since most people are dominant in a Nature, then they are see the world through that particular lense.

It is an interesting thought and adds yet another twist to God’s design.  Take a moment to read the article if you get the chance.

 

We are all unique and valued by God

Genesis 9 is preceded by the story of God’s judgement and the destruction of every living creature outside of Noah and his immediate family.  When you consider the magnitude of the judgement you are left with a since of loss and sadness.  All of God’s creation has been washed away in a torrent of water.  Amazingly though, Genesis 9 has an is an undeniable theme coursing through it which screams out about the SANCTITY of life.

Genesis 9:5 is the cornerstone of that theme, “And for your lifeblood I will surely demand an accounting.  I will demand an accounting for every animal.  And from each man, too, I will demand an account for the life of his fellow man.” 

God values His creation, and He expects no less from us.  Whether it be honoring your father and mother , or caring for widows and orphans as Christ called us to do, or feeding the homeless, or standing against abortion, or preaching the Gospel to a lost and dying people, do you value God’s creation?  Do you value the uniqueness of those around you - your friends, coworkers, boss, son or father?  Do you value how God created YOU?

We are all valued by our Creator, and we each have a special and unique role to play.  Take time today to reflect on how God has given you talents, interests and abilities.  Afterwards, take some time to see the special makeup of those around you and celebrate their unique design. 

Renewal in 2009 - Between Two Trees

I remember posting a blog here at the beginning of last year 2008. Amazing that a whole year has gone by - my kids are older…I’m older! (Scary).

I think there’s a natural self-assessment we do at the beginning of every year. Did we accomplish what we wanted to? What changed? Am I better off or worse off? What did I learn? What should I keep doing…and what should I stop doing? What is still on my list and what am I taking off? Are my dreams still viable? What do I want to tackle next? These are all questions we wrestle with regularly, but they just seem more poignant now.

I watched a Rob Bell video recently that I had not seen before. I’ve seen a couple of the clips from the Nooma series. I’ve seen a couple of these segments but not all of them.

Take a look - it just might change your perspective on what is important - and why the “now” is important!

Trees

http://www.marshill.org/about/rob/
http://www.nooma.com/

Free Ebook: Thriving on Less - Simplifying in a Tough Economy

It’s the day after Christmas - and now that the euphoria is over you might be a little bit worried about the VISA/DISCOVER/AMEX bill that will arrive in a week or two.

Is the secret to happiness as simple as simplification? I don’t know, but there are sure a bunch of good tips in this eBook. Leo Babauta is cleverly giving away the eBook to advertise his new book - but there are 27 pages of goodness to be had for the cost of a download.

The one the tempts me the most? Giving up cable (or in my case satellite). That would be 80×12=$960 a year.

The other one? Diet Cokes. I go through at least a 12-pack a week. At $3 (on sale) x 52 = $156. Though, I think it would be easier to get rid of cable that Diet Coke!

Other tips that I wholeheartedly agree with:
1) Go debt free - we use our debit Visa and an AmEx that we pay each month. The only other real debt we have is our house…and I’d sure like to have that paid off too.
2) Create an emergency fund - I like Leo’s goal of aiming for $1000 to start with - but you really should have 6 months of bills in reserve. Another reason to eliminate debt and simplify - it makes that number much smaller.
3) Create a spending plan - I need to do a better job here, but we’ve done more of this in the last year and it has made a major difference in the final scorecard.

Check it out here:

http://thepowerofless.com/2008/12/fre … fying-in-a-tough-economy/

Dan

Lessons in leadership

I read a great blog by Reed Hastings, CEO and founder of NetFlix (

http://postcards.blogs.fortune.cnn.co … artup/?source=yahoo_quote).  It was a great story about a CEO who exhibited great humility and compassion for his staff (Heart) and acknowledged the contributions of his technical staff (Hands), but missed the mark on actually developing a product that the market wanted (Head).  It was interesting to see that while Mr. Hastings has no experience with the 3:9 Principle, it clearly was at work.  Take a minute to evaluate your own work experiences and see if you can identify the 3:9 Principle at work.

Save the Money - Get Your Personal MBA Right Here

Ran across this excellent list by John Kaufman. I’ve read probably 40% of these books and tend to agree with his selections. I tend to read 3-5 business books a year. Typically I identify at least 3-4 key concepts from each that shape the way I think.

I recommend doing the 10-days to Faster Reading as the first selection. I was already a fast reader when I read this (surprise to me - I thought I was slow), but actually improved my reading speed by 25% on average and my scanning speed by 100%. I’ve learned that for most business books, you can scan 50% of it and slow down and read 50%.

If you get through these 77 books - I will hereby annoint you with the the letters P.M.B.A. behind your name (though your mileage may vary)! Pick a couple, you might learn something!

http://personalmba.com/best-business-books/

One of my favorite sites - Lifehacker

I don’t do as much “web-surfing” as much as I used to, but I do occassionally run across some great stuff.

One of my recent favorites is Lifehacker.com. It sort of the perfect bridge between “Head” and “Hands” - like the practical side of geekdome.

Check it out! The latest? How about, how to shine your shoes! Doesn’t get much more useful than that…

http://lifehacker.com/399638/shine-yo … oes-like-a-military-cadet

Dan